Friday, June 20, 2008

I've debated over whether to write such personal things on our blog, but we haven't gotten around to telling too many dear friends and family about our recent sad event. This past Friday, I went to the doctors for my first routine pregnancy exam (I was 9 weeks along and definitely feeling all the "perks"). They did an ultrasound and found out the baby did not have a heart beat. It was measuring about 8-9 weeks, so they told me it must have just happened recently. After a stunned week, I still haven't actually miscarried the baby, so a D&C was scheduled for today. Even though this sad event has caused much gloom and sadness in our home, we are so so grateful for amazing friends and family, for our knowledge of eternal life, and for our sweet healthy boy we have been hugging extra close this week. Thank you to everyone for the flowers, the meals, the ice cream, and more importantly, your love, your listening ears and your prayers. This week has been a little depressing, but I know that our Heavenly Father has a plan for our family. We love you.

25 comments:

Carrie Lynn said...

Oh Amy, I am so sorry. I can't imagine how tough this is, but know that we love you. I'm thinking of you, as always!

Miss Sarah in Georgia said...

Oh, Amy ... I am sending lots of love and hugs from Georgia to you and your family.

Zach 'n' Jack said...

We love you tons Amy, and are here for you if you need anything!!

Nicole said...

we send our love too. we are so sorry.

Missy said...

Oh Amy, I'm so sorry. I went through the same thing before Avery came...so glad you have had people around you - especially Jack.

chrissy caffee said...

I hate that we are so out of touch. I can't believe this has happened to you and I can't be there for you. I'm so sorry for you and Derek both. I'm glad you have good friends there that are looking after you. We miss you and will keep you in our prayers. I'll call you tonight if I can. I love you!

chrissy caffee said...

ahh, I'm at ben's mom and dad's house, that's why the comment is coming up as chrissy. this is really Di

Anonymous said...

I love you all Amy, Derek, Jack and you've been in my thoughts and prayers all week. I just wish I was closer to be with you all right now. Know that I'm thinking of you and hoping you know how special you all are to us. Kory

Megan said...

Sorry that Dustin and I didn't know. I am in Utah right know, but give Dustin a call if you need anything. We just want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Danielle said...

sorry to hear...we love you!!!

Brandy said...

I'm so sorry to hear what happened. You are in our prayers for sure. Hang in there! -Brandy

The Rylanders said...

And we love you. We miss you guys so much! I'm sorry we couldn't be there during all of this, but always remember we are only a call away even if we're not right down the parking lot anymore. You are in our prayers always. Hang in there friend.

thepainterfamily said...

love you. love your family. love your beautiful spirit and testimony. love me.

Tara said...

Amy-I know saying sorry doesn't make you feel any better, but prayers might-Daniel and I are thinking of you and will keep you in our prayers. We miss you guys!! Jackie told me you are moving to a house in the ward-that will be a nice change. Keep in touch.

Kristin and Kurt Bryant said...

As someone who has been there, I understand how rough this is. This is definitely a tough thing to go through especially with the huge hormonal and emotional changes. The advice I can give you is that you take all the time you need to not be ok with things for a while. I will be thinking about you. We will keep you in our prayers. We sure miss you!

LadyEm said...

Amy, thank you so much for sharing your sad news so that we can send our love and support to you and your family during this time. I'm so sorry to hear, but I know you will be fine and I'll definitely keep you in my prayers.

Pavelko Blogspot said...

Amy,
I'm so sorry to hear this. I will certainly keep you and your family in our prayers.
Jess Pavelko

dixonfamily said...

Amy,
We sure miss you guys and are sorry to not be there to help. I am so grateful that you have such a great husband and such a beautiful and sweet little boy to help you through this time. Love you and your sweet family.

The High Family- said...

Amy & Derek, Please know that we are thinking of you both and your sweet little guy.We love you guys a ton. Please call if you need anything or just want to vent. You will be in our constant prayers.

Cameron, Ashley and boys

Melissa said...

I am so sorry to hear the news. Aaron and I just went through that in August. I know it is one of the hardest things to go through. You guys are in our prayers.

Jared and Emily Mack said...

We are heart-broken for your loss and our prayers are with you. Things happen for a reason (I know that sounds awful right now) but the appreciation for what you have been given (and what is yet to come) will be much greater with each obstacle. We love you guys and wish nothing but the best for you.
Much Love,
Jared & Emily

Benson Fam said...

Thank you for letting us know, I'm so sorry. Our little Elise was born exactly one year (almost to the day) after I miscarried but it was an emotional year. The best advice I was given was to let yourself grieve. And rest, that D&C takes time to recover from. We love you three.

Lisa Hobbs said...

I love you Amy and I am sorry for your loss. Hugs and kisses to you all!

Becca said...

we send our love and big hugs your way!!!! We'll be keeping you in our prayers!!!!! Wish I was closer to do more!!!I'm sending you a virtual casserole!!!

Goodfellow Family said...

Hey Amy, it is Sarah Goodfellow. I always check in with the good ol' Oregon friends through Kristen's blog...I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know what you are going through as I have been through 3. It is a very tough time but time does heal and I am sure you will be blessed with a healthy one soon. We love you guys and miss you.